How To Take Care Of Your Sex Toys?

Did you know that, in March, there’s a “National Worship of Tools Day”?




And yes, my dirty mind went someplace else too. So don’t worry.


Apparently, it’s a day you’re supposed to give your tools some extra TLC- like sharpening, cleaning, oiling, storage etc. It makes sense. It also got me thinking about sex toy care and caring for these important “tools”.


This cheeky, butt spanking, harsh-reality guide will help you care for your sex toys and get as much life out of them as possible.





I hope none of you are using a sex toy, and you’re not sure what it’s made from – because that’s bad.  If you don’t know, go back to the seller’s page and read the details before you play with it again.


Having toys that stay with you for years really begins …

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8 Romantic BDSM Ideas To Get More Kinky

We’re not talking about BDSM in romance novels, no. We’re talking about the romantic BDSM that can be done in the bedroom.


“But, romantic?!” you ask. “I thought BDSM was all about spanking and being dominant or mean.”


Nope, Bondage, Dominance/Submission, and Sadomasochism can be on ANY end of the spectrum. It can be feather-light contact and a gentle, loving touch. You don’t have to tie someone down when you can keep them in place with your eyes – a passionate stare that shows how badly you want them.


Here are some ways you can take the intense world of BDSM and tone it down into something less intimidating.





Instead of dripping wax over your partner’s body, use your candles for romantic ambiance. OR if you’re REALLY interested in using them for something other than light, there are “massage candles”  – …

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The Adventures Of Steph Slackhouse In China

It’s not just splits, hair spray, and fun – today we get an inside glimpse into queen Stephanie Slackhouse, her experiences with drag, what it was like to evolve her art in China’s less-than-welcoming attitude towards the craft.


SIDE NOTE – apologies on being tucked into the kink category, Stephanie (you’re not a sex toy or a sex tip, so this was the house you landed in for now, but it’s okay we have kinky cookies).



What was the first moment you thought “Hey, this drag queen thing is amazing! I want in on that!”


I’d say that it was years ago. Maybe when I was in my early 20s I would have seen my first Queens performing in South London, many of whom are still performing there today.


They really impressed me. Their voice. Their entertainment value. Their skills in commanding a stage. From …

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AIDS Awareness 101

While December is International AIDS Awareness, March is AIDS Awareness for Women and Girls. Instead of writing an article that simply restates the same details, here is a collection of infographics that you can save, share, and use to inform and educate.


SIDE NOTE: Some of the text might be small, but you can save the image to read it better. Also, some of the graphics might be older, but there’s still plenty of good information in there.

















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Top 6 Anal Vibrators to Add Up to Your Backdoor Fun

Anal vibrators are especially meant to stimulate your backdoor. It’s not safe to use regular vibrators on your backdoor that are mostly designed for clit stimulation as they don’t have a flared end. But, anal vibrators are strategically designed with flared base that prevent them from getting lost inside the anus. Anal vibrators are amazingly sexy and can be used for solo play as well as with your partner. In fact, unlike the vibrators for clit stimulation, these vibrators can be enjoyed by men as well for awesome prostate stimulation.

Are you planning to try out anal vibrators but having a hard time finding the right one? Well, no worries, the post below shares a brief on some of the best anal vibrators for you in the current market.

Lovehoney Butt Tingler

You have a super powerful butt plug vibrator here that will reward you with perfect orgasms to the …

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Preparing For Your First Urethral Sound Experience

Do you have experience with introducing penis plug? Then you can slowly increase the intensity of the stimulation and dare to bigger models. For example, try to introduce a dilator a little deeper into you. That’s no problem with a Pratt dilator. These rods are longer than average and are specifically designed to penetrate deep into your body. Or you reach for a Van Buren with its J-shape, which irritates the prostate. How about a Rosebud dilator to stimulate the bladder? You can now try vibrating models and explore how the vibrations feel. Here is the guide to urethral sounding.

The right size for your dilator

As important as the model is the right size. First, the basics: All dilators have different thicknesses and cross sections. The narrowest dilators start at a diameter of 1.5 mm to 2 mm. The largest dilators have a diameter of up to 15 mm. …

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Unlocking Your Vagina’s Potential Through Ben Wa Balls

In the past, mentioning the word “sextoys” or “ball of Ben Wa” made all women blush. However, some women have managed today to overcome this embarrassment. But for those who are not yet ready to pronounce the word “sextoys” without blushing, you must know that nowadays sextoys have become almost indispensable objects for women. Why are String Ben Wa Balls recommended for beginners? Let’s check it out.

The doctors even specify that the use of certain sextoys have a beneficial effect on his physical and moral health. What is the relationship between the perineum and the sextoys? The perineum is a set of muscles presented in rhombus; most women do not have sufficient knowledge of their own sex. The question that often remains unanswered remains to know how to rehabilitate his perineum. What is the purpose of the perineum, because often we only know that we must take care of …

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Adding Yoni Eggs To Your Collection of Accessories

Ever since the success of Fifty Shades of Gray they are on everyone’s lips: love balls. But what exactly is that? Love ball come in many different designs, from small to large, made of different materials, individually or as a chain. Originally from Asia, they were brought to France in the 18th century.The balls consist of an outer shell and a movable, heavier core, so that they vibrate gently during movement or generate vibrations. When introduced into the vagina, they stimulate the vaginal walls.

In addition, there are now love balls with built-in vibrators and electric stimulators and special balls for anal use. Most balls are equipped with return threads so that they can easily be pulled out of the sheath again.

Many women find it very erotic and stimulating to wear this ball in everyday life as a kind of secret. It can also be a very tingling experience …

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Sex Toys: Know everything before you buy

Vibrators, masturbators, clitoral stimulants, anal plugs, pulsators and much more there are numerous sex toys available in the market. To date, the range of sex toys is very large; they are made from different materials, different sizes and purposes. However, there is a rule that is relevant for any sex product – use with grease or choose the best lube for sex toys! About how to choose the right lubricant for sex toys, we’ll talk in this article.

First of all, you should understand why the use of intimate lubricants, when in contact with toys, is so important. If it is submersible toys: vaginal and anal vibrators, plugs, dildos, balls, nozzles, etc., the lubricant is necessary to minimize the risk of microtraumas and crack in the mucous membranes. And when in contact with a toy, even from the softest material, this danger is very great. With male masturbators, …

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