We’re not talking about BDSM in romance novels, no. We’re talking about the romantic BDSM that can be done in the bedroom.
“But, romantic?!” you ask. “I thought BDSM was all about spanking and being dominant or mean.”
Nope, Bondage, Dominance/Submission, and Sadomasochism can be on ANY end of the spectrum. It can be feather-light contact and a gentle, loving touch. You don’t have to tie someone down when you can keep them in place with your eyes – a passionate stare that shows how badly you want them.
Here are some ways you can take the intense world of BDSM and tone it down into something less intimidating.
Instead of dripping wax over your partner’s body, use your candles for romantic ambiance. OR if you’re REALLY interested in using them for something other than light, there are “massage candles” – …Read More